People - 30 Agosto 2019 That First-baby Experience Can Be Scary! So Much to Know, so Many Questions! When I became a mom, at age 32, I felt deeply alone. My husband had gone back to work, my mom had left, urging me with a, “Honey, you need to bond alone with your baby”. What I call “The United States of My Trusted Moms”, on line groups going through a similar experience, will abolish any distance, and help you overcome any anxiety of being left alone, unheard and isolated.